Can you say a little more about how you see things?
What information might you have that I don’t?
How do you see it differently?
What impact have my actions had on you?
Can you say a little more about why you think this is my fault?
Were you reacting to something I did?
How are you feeling about all of this?
Say more about why this is important to you.
For me, what this is really about is…
What I’m feeling is…
What is important to me is…
What I hear you saying is…
That sounds like a put down to me. (dealing with sarcasm)
That seems harsh. (dealing with sarcasm)
I’d like to hear your point after I finish mine. (dealing with being interrupted)
That’s interesting. Tell me more.
Does anyone else feel this way?